"Dede's Reflections"



 
The rod and reproof give wisdom:
but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.
Proverbs: 29:15
               
 To Fail
 
The perfect way to make your child miserable and to fail is to satisfy all their wants and demands.
 
When I hear a child saying, " But  so and so's mother is letting her go" or "Why not?, you never let me do anything,
I am praying that mother will stay strong
know how to stay strong and be able to say NO.
 
I see many parents buying their children
*Name Brand*
clothes just to shut them up or so they will be
like everybody else at school.
 
These same children talk to their parents with such disrespect. Many times they do not even want what they are asking for. They are just testing the limits and more than anything they need one on one time with you. They need your attention, nothing else.
 
Material things cannot buy happiness and they will not bring happiness to your children. True happiness comes from within.
 
I hear parents saying, "But, I want my child to like. They won't like me if I say NO. This is such a false statement. Children need understanding and love,  but most of all they need to be taught the law of God. They need to learn to love themselves so they can love others.
 
If you teach your children the ways of God, you will be so blessed in the end.
 
Her children will stand and bless her.
Proverbs 31:28 ( TBL )
 
Our children watch and imitate it somewhere along the way in their own life. What we are sets more of an example than anything we say.
 
In everything set an example by doing what is good.
Titus 2:7a (NIV)
 
What we do always, not what we say, always sends the loudest and clearest message to our children.
Let's try not to confuse them-
GIVE THEM WHAT THEY NEED MOST
~LOVE AND RESPECT~
 
"MAY YOU ALWAYS SEE YOUR CHILDREN AS A
BLESSING, A TRUE GIFT FROM GOD ABOVE."
~~~**~~~ 
Author: Delilah M. (Dede) Haas
Copyright 3/02/06

 

              

 



 


 

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